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“Purpose Gone Wild”
The Gift you are meant to give…
You are a rare specimen. I know that's a random way of starting this blog, but its true! The fact that you are alive is confirmation that you have purpose. Out of MILLIONS of sperm and hundreds of thousands eggs, YOU WERE SELECTED TO BE HERE. This is simply amazing. In case you didn’t know, it only takes 1 sperm, and 1 egg to create a baby, and in that particular moment, you were created. This is phenomenal. There is a specific reason why you are here, and your purpose is directly linked to your passion. Let’s talk passion today…
We all have our passions & interest. The problem comes when we fall into a hypnotic rhythm of imitating the lives of others, and fail to realize our own uniqueness. Those who are truly great and legendary are the ones who pursed their curiosities even when it was contrary to what everyone else was doing around them. They did not fear the opinions of others, they simply acted on their hearts desires and in turn, they made a significant contribution to the world. The problem with mass media and social media is that when you are so focused on the lives of others it can be a distraction and distort your thinking, making you believe that you are supposed to be in a position that you are not. Truth is…you are right where you need to be and as soon as you take your eyes off everyone else’s purpose you can start pursuing your own.
Don’t be afraid of your own happiness or success. The world NEEDS that authentic thing you have to offer. Imitating the masses is a sure way of neglecting your true calling. Dig deep to find your OWN creative voice. Copying is easy. Many people can do it and it makes money, but there is no rewarding feeling at the end of it. When you pursue your passions, that “rewarding” feeling is worth more than any dollar amount.
Take some time to revisit the things that captivate you. The things that make your heart skip a beat or have you up for hours, researching, studying, dreaming etc. When you are really excited or passionate about something that is a green light that you are headed in the right direction. Some people have a misconception that discovering your purpose is supposed to be a drawn out struggle. It is actually the polar opposite. You are co-creating this life with the ultimate creator (God) and he has instilled a gift in you that will spark your interest.
It is important to act and dive deeper into even the most subtle passions that may seem random and pointless. For instance, if you have a passion for drawing on the ground with chalk, you may be able to start a campaign writing positive quotes on college campuses. As crazy as it may sound, extraordinary things happen when you take time to learn what drives you. God didn’t create anything that is not gifted. Master who you are, instead of being pre-occupied with everyone else.
As we head into the new year, I want you to rediscover your passions. Take some time to reflect back on what interested you as a child, and be confident on your pursuit of purpose. I can’t stress enough how living your purpose truly serves the world.
If your passions don’t line up with all the degrees you have received or career path you've been on, do not fear. It’s better to start now, than to look back 30 years from now, realizing you let all your passions die.
So…join me in re-discovering our passions and unwrapping the beautiful gift God has given us. #GettingMyLife #PurposeGoneWild (Hashtag! I want to see your success & progress.)
Follow me: @AshleyEmpowers
A few Updates:
1.) One of my passions is getting the message of “Dating With Purpose” to the masses. I have some awesome interviews on my YouTube channel on what it means to date with purpose. Check it out here: http://www.youtube.com/AshleyEmpowers
2.) My husband & I are on tour! Yes, we are currently hosting a multi-city "Dating With Purpose" tour where we are sharing our unique experience and practical tips for entering healthy relationships. For more information or to invite us to speak, email firstname.lastname@example.org. (Our next stop on our tour is December 20, 2014 in Louisiana!)